|Don't worry. It's not all for them.|
In Season Four’s “The Incredible Sinking Lorelais” both Rory and Lorelai are at their lowest point: Rory is sick, and got a D on a paper. Lorelai is worried about money and stressed about opening a new inn. Worst of all, mother and daughter are playing a terrible game of phone tag just when they need each other the most.
Unable to connect with one another—and with Lane and Sookie busy with their own daughter/mother issues—Rory and Lorelai turn to Dean (now married) and Luke (on the cusp of a divorce). Rory can’t turn to Jess, because he has a tendency to drop in and out of her life while pretending he doesn’t know that doing so sends some very confusing signals. And Lorelai doesn’t turn to her boyfriend Jason “Digger” Stiles, because theirs is not that sort of relationship.
This is Luke’s greatest strength: he is there. Earlier in the season, Jess accused him of doing too much. Of giving so much that he creates a sense of guilt and obligation in the recipient. (Jess later thanks Luke for all he did for him.) But, by the end of Season Four, Luke has shown that he is a good—albeit gruff—guy. He can be Lorelai’s partner, he can look out for his family, he can look out for Rory.
In Seasons One and Two, I didn’t like Luke. I had the same problem with him that I have with Mr. Darcy. [Ducks, covers, gets hit with rotten fruit anyway.] Both Luke and Mr. Darcy are, at first, judgmental jerks. I’ve always thought that part of Jane Austen’s trick in Pride and Prejudice is to show that Elizabeth Bennet likes Darcy mostly because she feels like she has earned his approval. In the parlance of Pick-Up Artists and the Men’s Rights movement, both Luke and Mr. Darcy are aces at “negging.”
Then Luke went to Rory’s graduation in the Season Three finale, and he cried during her speech, and I finally got the appeal. (Put another way, I might say that Amy Sherman-Palladino finally made him more appealing.) By Episode 20 of Season Four, “Luke Can See Her Face,” Luke realizes the person he likes most in the world, the one with whom he wants to share the great moments and the worst, is Lorelai. And that makes me happy.
It seems to make Lorelai happy, too. Over the course of Seasons Three and Four, she experiences massive personal upheavals: the Independence Inn burns down, she decides to buy the Dragonfly with Sookie, her daughter leaves home, her parents separate. But she’s got one stable rock in the middle of it all, and she’s just as happy to be there for him when he needs her.
Seasons Three and Four see an equal amount of upheaval for Rory. After a lifetime of preparation for Harvard, Rory decides to go to Yale. Why? Family, proximity, money, feelings—all those tangibles and intangibles that affect our big decisions. Although Lorelai originally disliked the plan, worrying that Rory’s decision was too influenced by Richard and Emily, she eventually gets behind the idea and redecorates Rory’s room with Yale swag.
Rory’s love life in these seasons is equally dramatic. The arrival of Jess, a moody poetic soul incapable of expressing any emotion other than disdain, spells the end for Rory and Dean’s rekindled relationship. Things with Jess implode, replode, and just plod for a while. Dean, meanwhile, rebounds by getting married. Although she dislikes Jess as much as I do, Lorelai stood by Rory through it all.
|Dean has gotten so tall he doesn't fit in the frame anymore.|
Did Rory deserve it? Yes and no: she slept with a married man. Did Lorelai say the right things? Yes and no: what she said was accurate, but she should have waited and said them more gently. The rift between the two is the cliffhanger on which Season Four ends, and it is an uncomfortable one. We saw how miserable Lorelai and Rory are without each other for just a few days in “The Incredible Sinking Lorelais.” What would it mean if they don’t reconcile for longer?
Highlights from Season Three and Four:
• Best Boyfriend: Wow. I don’t even know what to say: The Luke/Lorelai thing has barely started, Dean is married, Jess is too teenagerish for my liking, Jason “Digger” Stiles is all wrong…I’m voting for Marty, the random guy at Yale who seems to have a crush on Rory.
• Best Relationship: Liz and TJ.
• Creepiest Relationship: Paris and Asher Fleming, the professor who is old enough to be close friends with Rory’s grandfather.
• Best Subplot: Mrs. Kim and Lane. Oh, how they struggle in the background!
• Saddest Subplot: The gradual implosion of Emily and Richard’s marriage. I'll talk more about them in the next review.
• Best Stars Hollow Semi-Regular: Kirk.
• Best Yale Semi-Regular: Danny Strong as Rory’s editor at the school paper.
• Worst Moment: Lorelai and Rory’s fight at the end of Season Four.
• Best Episode: “They Shoot Gilmores, Don’t They?” AKA: the Dance Marathon episode, and the one where Rory and Dean break up.
Four out of four Stars Hollows.
Josie Kafka reviews The Vampire Diaries, Game of Thrones, and various other things that take her fancy. She is a full-time cat servant and part-time rogue demon hunter. (What's a rogue demon?)